Choice or ChanceWhen we meet the right person to love, when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance.When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance.Being caught up in a moment (and there are a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice.That's also a chance.The difference is what happens afterwards.When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's nota chance. That's choice.When you choose to be with a person, no matter what,..that's choice.Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice.Infatuation, crushes, and attraction come to us by chance.But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote that Ibelieve is so true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."I believe that soulmates do exist, that there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not.We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to make.We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love, BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly.

Birthday Meanings

January 01 - 09 ~ Dog February 01 - 05 ~ Cat March 01 - 12 ~Monkey January 10 – 24 ~ Mouse February 06 - 14 ~ Dove March 13 - 15 ~ Lion January 25 - 31 ~ Lion February 15 – 21 ~ Turtle March 16 - 23 ~ Mouse February 22 - 28~Panther March 24 - 31 ~ Cat
April 01 - 03 ~ Dog May 01 - 13 ~ Monkey June 01 - 03 ~ Mouse April 04 – 14 ~ Panther May 14 - 21 ~ Dove June 04 - 14 ~ Turtle April 15 - 26 ~ Mouse May 22 - 31 ~ Lion June 15 - 20 ~ Dog April 27 - 30 ~ Turtle June 21 - 24 ~ Monkey June 25 - 30 ~ Cat
July 01 - 09 ~ Mouse August 01 - 15 ~ Monkey Sept. 01 - 14 ~ Dove July 10 - 15 ~ Dog August 16 - 25 ~ Mouse Sept. 15 - 27 ~ Cat July 16 - 26 ~ Dove August 26 - 31 ~ Turtle Sept. 28 - 30 ~ Dog July 27 - 31 ~ Cat
Oct. 01 - 15 ~ Monkey November 01 - 16 ~ Lion Dec. 01 - 16 ~ Dog Oct. 16 - 27 ~ Turtle November 17 - 30 ~ Cat Dec. 17 - 25 ~ Monkey Oct. 28 - 31 ~ Panther Dec. 26 - 31 ~ Dove

If you are a Dog: A very loyal and sweet person. Your loyalty can never be doubted. You are quite honest and sincere when it comes to your attitude towards working. You are a very simple person, indeed. Absolutely hassle free, humble and down-to-earth!! That explains the reason why your friends cling on to you! You have a good taste for clothes. If your wardrobe is not updated with what is trendy, you sure are depressed. Popular and easy-going. You have a little group of dignified friends, all of them being quality-personified.
If you are a Mouse: Always up to some sort of a mischief! The mischievous gleam in your eyes is what makes you so cute and attractive to everyone. You are an extremely fun-to-be-with kind of person. No wonder, people seek for your company and look forward to include you for all get-togethers. However, you are sensitive, which is a drawback. People need to select their words while talking to you. If someone tries to fiddle around and play with words while dealing with you, it is enough to invite your wrath. God bless the person then!
If you are a Lion: Quite contradictory to your name, you are a peace loving person. You best try to avoid a situation wherein you are required to fight. An outdoor person, you dislike sitting at one place for a long duration. You are a born leader, and have it in you how to tactfully derive work from people. You love being loved, and when you receive your share of limelight from someone, you are all theirs!!!! Well, well... hence some people could even take an advantage, flatter you to the maximum and get their work done. So be careful.....
If you are a Cat: An extremely lovable, adorable person, sometimes shy, with a passion for quick wit. At times, you prefer quietness. You love exploring various things and going into depth of each thing. Under normal circumstances you're cool, when given a reason to, you are like a volcano waiting to erupt. You're a fashion bird. People look forward to you as an icon associated with fashion. Basically, you mingle along freely but don't like talking much to strangers. People feel very easy in your company. You observe care in choosing your friends.
If you are a Turtle: You are near to perfect and nice at heart. The examples of your kindness are always circulated in groups of people. You too, love peace. You wouldn't like to retaliate even to a person who is in the wrong. You are loved due to this. You do not wish to talk behind one's back. People love the way you always treat them. You can give, give and give love, and the best part is that you do not expect it back in return. You are generous enough Seeing things in a practical light is what remains the best trait of you guys.
If you are a Dove: You symbolize a very happy-go-lucky approach in life. Whatever the surroundings may be, grim or cheerful, you remain unaffected. In fact, you spread cheer wherever you go. You are the leader of your group of friends and good at consoling people in their times of need. You dislike hypocrisy and tend to shirk away from hypocrites. They can never be in your good books, no matter what. You are very methodical and organized in your work. No amount of mess, hence, can ever encompass you. Beware; it is easy for you to fall in love....
If you are a Panther: You are mysterious. You are someone who can handle pressure with ease, and can handle any atmosphere without going berserk. You can be mean at times, and love to gossip with your selected group. Very prim and proper. You like all situations and things to be in the way you desire, which, sometimes is not possible. As a result, you may lose out in some relationships. But otherwise, you love to help people out from difficult and tight spots when they really need you.
If you are a Monkey: Very impatient and hyper!!! You want things to be done as quick as possible. At heart, you are quite simple and love if you are the center of attraction. That way, you people are unique. You would like to keep yourself safe from all the angles. Shall your name be dragged or featured in any sort of a controversy, you then go all panicky. Therefore, you take your precautions from the very beginning. When you foresee anything wrong, your sixth sense is what saves you from falling in traps. Quite a money minded bunch you people are!!

" Pahimakas "
by: e$$e
Pinipintuho kong kaibigan ay paalam,trabahong iniirog higit sa buhay,mutyang mahalaga sa kapusuan,kaluwalhatian sa aking paglisan.
Masaya sa inyo aking idudulot,sa lanta kong buhay na lubhang malungkot:maging mapang-asar man at labis na loko-loko,sa kasiyahan nyo ay akin ding handog.
Sa pagpapatawa at kalokohan,hatid ay kasiyahan at katuwaan,walang agam-agam kung mapagalitan,ng guwardiang sibil na nagbabantay.
Ang ngiti kong masaya kung kinakailangan,ay maisabog ng lubos sa mga kalungkutan,kalokohan ko'y ikalat at siyang ikinang,sa mata ng taong may ningning na kulay.
At sa kalungkutan ko inyong iparamdam,ang luha sa mga mata na may kasiyahan,ang init ng hininga mula sa kaibuturan,ng pusong mapagbigay, totoo at tunay.
Lumayo man ako kayo'y nasa isip,ikutin man ang mundo di mawawaglit.Pagkat mahal ko maging sa panaginip,Ay nananahan kayo dito sa aking dibdib.
Hayaang nyong dumaloy inyong mga luha,hayaang mamalagi sa mga magandang mukha.Hayaang diligin nalalantang halaman,hayaang inumin uhaw sa pangangailangan.
Inyong mga luha'y aking babaunin,ningning sa mata nyo tulad ay mga bituin.Ay kakaingatan ko't pagyayamanin,pagkat sa puso ko kayo'y laging iisipin.
Paalam kaibigan mga kainuman,Paalam Tac-ops mga kalokohan,Paalam mga palamuti ko sa buhay,paalam-paalam sa inyo kailanman.
Ako'y lalayo na tulirong-tuliro,isip ko'y nanduon puso ko'y nandito.Pagkat masakit sa pusong totoo,iwanang lahat kayong mga bolero.
Dito natutuhan at naramdaman,init ng pagmamahal ng isang kaibigan.Dito nagsimula mga karunungan,at nalampasan mga kabiguan.
Salamat kay uling, tamulmol at thine,salamat kay oishi, emma at zeus.
salamat kay toberts, bangbus sa lahat.
Ako'y magsisimula ng walang alam,tanging bitbit ko pangalan nyo lamang.Ako'y pupunta sa gireyang walang laban,tanging sandata ko lakas ng isipan.
Ako'y patutungo sa walang kalokohan,walang kagaguhan at seryoso sa buhay,paghahanap ng libanga'y di uubra,sa dami ng trabaho at walang hingahan.
Kung kalokohan ko'y limot na ng lahat,at wala ng astig na patayo-tayo't palakad-lakad,ay bayaang tularan ng isang taong masipag,computer tiyagain at bangbus ay ikalat.
Pagpasalamatan nyo na wala na ako,walang mang-iinis at walang manggagago,walang maglalaro at walang manggugulo,tandaan nyo kapatid ko mahal ko kayo..at higit sa lhat...tangina nyo..:)